Self Improvement

A young girl peaking into a jack-o-lantern

Can You Really Have It All? Did You Carve that Pumpkin?

Many feminist icons of the mid and late 90’s will tell you that you can have an amazing career, perfect marriage, and bake the best damn cookies for kindergarten play dates all at once. This is a lie. They are lying to you.
As soon as you let go of the idea that you even WANT it all, let alone c…

DSHS Changed Visitation Policy

Transgender Kids in Divorce

On every parenting plan is a little box to mark, indicating which parent (or combination of parents) has the right to decide on medical care for their child after a divorce is complete. With older children, their own wishes may come into play, but until they are 18 kids will have to seek parental…

Texas Judge Grants Same-Sex Divorce after Long Fight

Reject Hate, Intolerance and Bigotry – 21 Year Old Female Guest Blogger

Just when you thought Donald Trump could not get more reprehensible, he does. He is always upping the ante, but this most recent declaration of his intentions on abortion may be the most far right, tea party esque stance yet. In all honesty, I hate writing about Donald Trump. I am tired of his ha…

Always Save Your Soul

Always Save Your Soul

If you have to choose between your marriage and your soul, choose your soul.  If you have to choose between anything and your soul, always choose your soul.  Without your soul, you die a tiny little death each minute. 

What About the Beloved Family Pet?

Post Hurricane Katrina – Where are They Now?

As our family does every year around this time, we think about Hurricane Katrina and its impact on our family.  While sitting in the hospital the other night with Eric, we spent some time reminiscing about what has occurred since the storm.
First, our location has changed, and changed and change…

Divorcing a Narcissist

Chances are, your ex is not a narcissist.

I am not a psychologist and neither are 99% of people who diagnose those around them using the term “narcissist”.  This word is likely drastically over used to describe the undesirable personality traits of the people in our lives. There are people who genuinely suffer from narcissistic personali…

Never Use Child Support as a Weapon

Getting the Balance Right

In a single-parent household one likes to think that they are 100% in control of the household and the children – discipline included. Truth is, the 4-year-old that tends to run the house more than I’d like to admit. She has spent near all 4 years of her life going between our home and her dad’s….

How do Children see Step-parents?

WIGS – Wildly Improbable Goal Setting

What is Wildly Improbable Goal Setting?  Martha Beck, a life coach, Sociologist, best-selling author and Harvard graduate explains why everyone needs Wildly Improbable Goals. 
In simplest terms, it is “dreaming big.”  It is “acting boldly.”  It is believing in your dreams – knowing the dream, kn…

A father and daughter having fun at the beach

Find Your Passion Through Envy – Put that Green Monster to Work

We are all taught that envy is negative.  I agree that envy with no action is only negative.  But envy with action helps one focus their passion.
What I mean is to let the “Green Monster” help you find what you crave, what you are passionate about but might be too timid or scared to admit.  Pay …