Divorce can happen to anyone. Sometimes it can be seen from a mile away. Other times, it’s unexpected. The best thing that anyone can do after a divorce is learn what they can from it and move on. One extraordinary woman says that her second divorce taught her some of the most important lessons o…
One of the best things you can do for your marriage is to see a counselor. In fact, if you can see one before you get married that’s even better. Many couples don’t see a marriage counselor until problems are well-entrenched and a lot of hurt has built up. Learning what problems may be sneaking u…
Parents will often share custody of children after a divorce. This puts both partners in a tricky situation. A lot of time, money, and emotional energy goes into a divorce. The ex-spouses may want nothing to do with each other but are forced to interact due to children. Spouses who divorce enter …
But, according to a study recently released by Duke University, divorce can literally be unhealthy for the heart, especially for women
Every person mourns the death in their own way, and whether that means devoting oneself to child-rearing or volunteering at a homeless shelter, it takes time to heal from a divorce.
The Co-Parent’s Handbook – Karen Bonnell and Kristin Little
About Robert E. Emery, Ph.D. – Divorce Mediation Expert
Emery’s Alternative Parenting Plans (Child Custody Schedules)
Making decisions about where children will live is one of the most frightening and difficult tasks of divorce. The prospect of no longer being w…
Learning how to communicate with a hostile ex-spouse is key to your long-term mental health. Bill Eddy describes his “BIFF” methodology below which can be found on Eddy’s website and in his book entitled “BIFF – Quick Responses to High Conflict People”
Do you need to respond?Much of hostile …
I had one of those wonderful moments as an attorney, friend, mom, divorced mom, human when I watched a client learn how to communicate with her soon-to-be ex in a way that was constructive, respectful and “forward focused.” She even said “Thanks” when I wrote her a firm note to “stop” the past c…
Why do people dread Mondays?
The answer is obvious: we all dread Mondays because the weekend is over and our workweeks are just starting. But, as I rode the elevator up to my office this morning, I realized that we don’t need to dread Mondays. I almost commented to the other riders, “Oh man,…